Encouragement for single parents

25% of households are run by single parents

As of 2011, approximately 1 in 4 households are run by single parents. Whether divorced, abandoned, or single parenting by choice, there are unique challenges single parents face. Not the least of which is guilt.
As a single parent, it is difficult to find a balance between work and family life. Being the sole breadwinner puts a lot of pressure on someone trying to be a full time parent as well.. Missing out on milestones, field trips, being there after school - these are things a lot of working single parents regret. A flexible work schedule is a plus; however, not everybody has that opportunity. How do you deal with the guilt at the end of the day, knowing you missed out on something special your child did, or having your child tell you how much they miss you.

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Set aside one on one time

As difficult as it can be, try to set aside specific time for each child. Even five minutes at the end of the day, one on one, distraction free. A short conversation about the day before bed can be a valuable time to share. Have a child help prepare dinner; cooking is a great way to spend some time together and enjoy some casual conversation. If possible, try to eat dinner as a family. Depending on work schedules, this may be difficult, but even one night a week is beneficial. It is especially important in households with more than one child to ensure that each child has some amount of alone time with their parent.